"But I’d argue that it’s not about being picky. It’s about having all of these options, and not knowing how to choose from among them, or whether we even want to. It’s about the years of being told we can have it all, and suddenly being deeply afraid to admit that that house of cards has been a sham all along because no one really gets to have it all."
Jen Doll in the article Dear Single Women of NYC: It’s Not Them, It’s You
It’s subtitled The Plight of the Single Lady but in a bigger picture it might be the plight of the modern lady. Especially ones in big cities—I found this related equally to LA even though people love to claim the polar oppositeness of LA and NY.
Go read.
